If their lips are moving! If you tell a customer that their trade is worth $12250, they say they were offered $13250 down the street. Ever notice that it is usually an even thousand more? It wouldn't bother me if they said that they think it is worth a thousand more. It bothers me when they lie.
An old Cajun worked me for nearly three hours over $500. Once I agreed, he told me that his investment, in time, was worth nearly $200/hr. He told me, "that is much more than I make on the job". He never lied to me. He told me what he was willing to spend. Once you shake hands with a Cajun, it's a done deal. That was a light deal but I sold several of his friends.
I negotiate all of the time. I have a deal with my cleaners. I get my dry cleaning at $2.50 per item and my shirts for a buck. I like clothes and have nearly as many shoes as most women. I never pay retail. I will pick up 4 or 5 shirts and negotiate a discount. Do they get upset? I have had salespeople at Nordstroms and Dillards leave customers to wait on me.
An old Cajun worked me for nearly three hours over $500. Once I agreed, he told me that his investment, in time, was worth nearly $200/hr. He told me, "that is much more than I make on the job". He never lied to me. He told me what he was willing to spend. Once you shake hands with a Cajun, it's a done deal. That was a light deal but I sold several of his friends.
I negotiate all of the time. I have a deal with my cleaners. I get my dry cleaning at $2.50 per item and my shirts for a buck. I like clothes and have nearly as many shoes as most women. I never pay retail. I will pick up 4 or 5 shirts and negotiate a discount. Do they get upset? I have had salespeople at Nordstroms and Dillards leave customers to wait on me.