YOU ALL ARE SO SELF-INVOLVED YOU ARE MISSING MY POINT. Roll with me, this'll be a test in creative thinking.
The universe does not revolve around the earth (even though it looks like it does). Have you ever heard of "Horse-Trading"?
(hôrs'trā'dĭng)
n.
Negotiation characterized by hard bargaining and shrewd exchange
Like dogs that circle before they lay down, we humans have been negotiating, bartering and grinding for thousands and thousands of years (and I am not exaggerating).
Here's my summary.
We are not the enemy, our CSI is way better than many many industries, buyers by nature are NOT loyal, negotiating is driven by the buyer and buyers negotiate for VERY PRACTICAL REASONS.
Don't bail on me yet, I'm just getting going!
Do buyers intuitively want to negotiate?
More often than you think! I challenge you, find someone in Real Estate Sales, buy them a drink and listen to them burn your ear off about how shoppers will grind the seller even if the seller is below market. Or, see it on TV. Watch HGTV's "Property Virgin" (or any other real estate sales show), you'll watch the noobs AND the veterans grind the sellers.
I challenge you; Look at the video above.... AGAIN.
It was crafted by a vendor who was tired of being GRINDED by buyers. Take off your car-guy hat and think about it.
Don't get hung up on my use of the word "grind". Here's my loose definition of grinding: "questions and posturing coming from buyers with the aim and
purpose to move the price lower" I really should use the term "negotiating". You understand. Let’s move on.
Ok, look at the video above.... YET AGAIN.
Think about how grinding techniques are "out of place" in many retail settings.
Can you see a pattern?
We see negotiation is linked to high dollar transactions AND it's not limited to Cars. Look a little deeper; did you notice it's "discovery based" negotiation? Hmmm....
I'll repeat that!!!
"... did you notice it's "discovery based" negotiation?"
Jeff Kershner TOTALLY NAILED IT
"...In the end people want to feel confident in their purchase. In order to help the customer feel confident, allow them to base their buying decision
on facts and not emotion."
See how that fits? Price discovery and confidence?
If car shoppers have all the tools needed to find the car at the best price, then why do they WANT TO NEGOTIATE before they buy? People grind (negotiate) for price discovery from the seller. Yes, there are market prices out there but don't think that market prices from other sellers is ONLY what the buyer is fishing for. What the buyer is looking for is reassurance that they've found the sellers unique buy it today number, or, they are looking for that last little personal discount to consummate the deal.
Buyers have a task and that task is to work the seller AND to feel confident that they have done a good job (buying is a task!)
To defend against this BUYERS NEED to "test the seller", all along the presentation, sellers need to prepare the buyer with word tracks and merchandising tools that prepare the buyer for the "negotiation dead end" that is coming. Remember, Negotiation and emotions are bedfellows. If you don't "reward" the buyer with a price drop, then expect emotions to rise as the decision point is at hand.